Dating an inmate/ex

Thanked 1, Times in Posts Quote: Come to find out when they do throw the children in the mix it doesn’t work out because the children clash with their mate for this or that reason. Now remember they’ve fell in love with one another. Do they say the hell with their relationship talking about the two that’s dating all together? I would love to hear from my PTO family on this issue!!!! I would never introduce my children to anyone unless we are serious about one another. I would never bring just some guy I’m dating around my kids.

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It seems as though majority of responses were saying: So, given that message, that is, the most likely case being that love is not possible, how about the next reason, that is isn’t it still better to have a relationship if not for love, but of convenience, mutually beneficial convenience, one specified and agreed upon ahead of time that lays out the terms and conditions of how the two of you will proceed to make arrangements that provides ways to meet your each of your needs?

I mean your bargaining power overall is pretty limited with a record, you are excluded from many things, have much less options, employment, credit lending, real estate options, etc. And therefore a guy who has all these obstacles in front of him will be more ‘open’ to listening to you if you have the ability to to do all the things a free man can, and needs you to ‘assist’ him with until he gets to slowly on his own through time, becuase he can’t on his own without you for the time being.

This puts the woman in a much greater bargaining position comparable to the ex-con – he needs her more than she needs him. She can drop the relationship as soon as he stops meeting her needs, as soon as he stops fixing her house, her car, running her errands, etc, whatever she needs him to do, and find someone else.

One of our dreams was to be able to own a home and that is coming true.

Jail Babes Women find romance behind bars, and a lot more. This article is about neither. Ninety percent of callers into these nationally syndicated radio programs are women who dedicate songs to their old man in prison. The book is about her experiences being married to a California Death Row prisoner housed at San Quentin. How does a guy who is locked in a cage, even find such babes?

They drive very long distances to reach the prison, wait in very long lines to get inside, face early terminations by officers due to overcrowding, are ridiculed by friends and family for dating a prisoner, and they face many nights alone waiting for their man to get out. These extraordinary women, regardless of their appearance, have big hearts, are independent thinkers, overall good women.

They sympathize easily with a guy who is locked up and want to take care of his every need. Appearances of women who have visited me, varied. From the anorexic Calista Flockhart type, to the voluptuous Carmen Elektra hottie, to the extremely obese woman whose dress resembles a huge old tacky curtain purchased at the local Goodwill.

These women were looking for something different in their lives, to break the routine of traditional dating, after just breaking up with a guy, or having been dumped. Having a man in prison gives them security, control, stability, allows them to be an independent free-willed woman, the head of the household. Here are two extraordinary woman, who are worthy of an honorable mention:

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Wow, this really hit the nail on the head.

I have been in a relationship with a great guy now for almost two years — but for the last 18 months, he has been incarcerated. We had a wonderful relationship before this came about. The incarceration was the result of something from his past years before we met that finally caught up with him and he had to make right. I stuck by his side and was the supportive girlfriend, sending letters, books, funding phone calls, visiting, etc.

He will be coming home very soon, and is very excited to pretty much pick up where we left off. He is going to be struggling to find work, a place to live he keeps hinting at moving in with me , and I am not in a place to support him either. I feel like we need to get to know each other again, date again, and see if we want to continue this commitment. I pretty much put my life on hold for him in the beginning, then realized that I needed to live my life and not wait around for him to get through this.

I am scared, nervous, and not ready to open my life up to him again like nothing has changed. I am not sure how to approach this with him, but the clock is ticking, and sooner than later I will see him face to face again. I appreciate your thoughts and suggestions. Advertisement Now you just have to tell him all of this. And yes, you have to do it soon. Get The Weekender in your inbox:

Dating after he gets out of jail

For over a year, I dealt with a lot of confusing emotions and it was really difficult. For whatever reason, we all like to know if our exes have moved on for good or not. It can be difficult to figure it out, especially if your ex is usually hard to read, but luckily, there are some telltale signs. Skip this Ad Next He Makes Excuses To Call Or Text You If your ex isn’t over you, he obviously still wants to talk to you – but if he doesn’t want you to know he’s not over you, he’ll try to be sneaky about it.

He’ll come up with excuses as to why he needs to talk, like asking random questions or trying to get your help with something. He’ll probably do it pretty often and then once he’s got you on the phone, he’ll try to keep you there by being like, “how are you doing?

I saw you across the room at a party.

Weekly Nabs Several Nominations in Southern California Journalism Awards Catwalking on the balls of her feet as another inmate improvises syncopated beats by banging on a metal bed frame using a plastic spoon and a plastic 7-Up bottle, Yah Yah is in her element. Her infectious energy lights up the locked, windowless room filled with roughly inmates. Two other inmates, both with long dark hair and wearing form-fitting minidresses, jostle to be the next to parade down the aisle.

They twitch their hips and seem to be having the time of their lives as scores of men and transgender women whoop and shout out unprintable encouragements. The impromptu fashion show broke out the moment after inmates spotted L. MCJ, as many dub it, is a cauldron of racial tension where violence is easily stirred by a fluctuating daily population of 3, to 4, inmates packed in close quarters. San Francisco has a transgender housing area, but gay inmates live among the general population.

But something unexpected has happened. The inmates are safer now, yes. Once released, some re-offend in order to be with an inmate they love. There are hatreds and occasionally even severe violence, but there is also friendship, community, love — and, especially, harmless rule-bending to dress up like models or decorate their bunks, often via devious means.

Another inmate of the gay wing at Men’s Central Jail struts her stuff. Photo by Ani Ucar Filing down a plastic razor blade, say, to create a sewing needle, not a shank. And neatness counts among some of these men, who repurpose newspapers into long-handled brooms.

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You have no desire to go through it again. You are ready to go on permanent guy-atus. Dear Future Love of My Life: I should have written before. I made eyes at you once on the subway.

How might you manage if there is a change in their release date?

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Home Ask Advice Join My boyfriend in jail Okay my bofriend Edward is in jail and he won’t be getting out until June 3rd and he’s been in there since January six months. But I have a huge problem that I can’t get off my mind. He’s really scared that I’ll cheat on him while he’s in there which I haven’t but I told him that I liked someone else ,his name is DJ I found out that he’s a total creep and I don’t like him anymore and wish I never told Edward that I liked him in the first place.

And because I told my boyfriend that I liked DJ he broke up with ,me. I love him soo much I can’t picture myself with anybody else. I’ve wrote him 3 times since all this happened and he hasn’t wrote back yet

Being honest about your concerns is important, but nagging, yelling or sulking can cause a bigger problem.

What do you call a clairvoyant midget who has escaped from prison? A small medium at large. Why did the picture go to jail? Because it was framed. Why is Facebook like jail? You have a profile picture, you sit around all day writing on walls, and you get poked by guys you really don’t know. Why was the parrot in prison? Because it was a jail-bird.

Why did the belt get arrested?

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